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Hopefully people have been keeping up my weekly quote in my A Little Something For The Weekend feature. You may or may not have wondered if there was a meaning to my A Little Something For The Weekend posts. Well, there is and it’s connected to the phrase “A Little Something For The Weekend.” If you’re English, the phrase will mean a lot. If you grew up in my dad’s era, the custom was to get a haircut on a Friday night so you looked your best for the weekends and ready to impress the ladies. When money changed hands with the barber, he was likely to say, “A little something for the weekend?” This was code for “Do you want any condoms?” And that was how Jack the Lad got hooked up for the weekend.
Now picture a younger and much smaller Simon. From the age of seven, I was allowed to go to Graham’s, the local a hair salon to get my hair cut. Graham was a pretty cool guy, a typical hairdresser from the 70’s. Very much a ladies man. The vast majority of his salon was dedicated to the ladies, but one corner was an old school barbers, complete with private entrance. It was dark and grim compared to its more extravagant ladies side. Graham would come around to the gents side to cut my hair. He’d put a wooden board across the arms of the barber’s chair to cut my hair. A right of passage for me was when Graham said the immortal words, “Simon, we don’t need the board anymore.” I was a man (at age 11¾).
However, Graham wasn’t always available to cut my hair, so Graham’s only other barber stepped in. Now this guy was old, old school. It didn’t matter what you asked for, you got the same cut short back and sides that street urchins have been sporting since Oliver Twist was a lad. Needless to say, the first time he cut my hair and I went to pay him, he muttered the immortal line, “A little something for the weekend, son?” I was nine and I didn’t have a clue what he was talking about, but everyone else did in the room and had a good old laugh at me. I asked my dad what it meant and I had one of those father and son “in the shed” meetings to discuss the matter. I was appalled by what it meant. It was…well…yucky.
So “A little something for the weekend?” holds special meaning to me—sort of…
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Categories: hump day post
Screw big and tall stores!
There I said it. Yeah, I’m heightest and circumferentially biased. So sue me. I have good reason.
The reason I’m anti-big and tall is that no one does little guy clothes. Everyone assumes you can wander over to the “mommy’s little soldier” department and pick up something petit there. Well, I’m sorry, that doesn’t work for me. Do you think I actually want to wear “Finding Nemo” and “Spiderman 2” tee shirts? Actually, I do, but that’s not the point. Getting clothes from the children’s section shouldn’t be the solution. Sometimes, I want to wear grown-up clothes, just in small sizes.
What has really gotten me riled up is former heavyweight boxing champion, George Foreman. Having now grown out of his obsession with grilling food, he’s moved on to the clothing business. He’s promoting Casual Male Big & Tall’s Signature Collection. This is a range of clothes with expandable waistbands and collars, courtesy of a telescopic tab that bridges the gap when you can’t button up that collar or your trousers. There are also shirts and jackets with insert panels for that little extra room.
This is another example of big people throwing their weight about to get what they want. It’s easy to see their problems because they are so visible. Well, little guy issues are big issues too. I shouldn’t have to have every pair of jeans and trousers altered because 28-Short or 30-Short isn’t all that short. When I put on a shirt, it shouldn’t come down to my knees and I shouldn’t have to follow a careful rolling and folding procedure to prevent myself from sitting on my shirttails and garroting myself. It would be nice to wear a hat that doesn’t double for a bucket.
The US prides itself on being an equal opportunity nation. It’s a land of minorities made up from people recognized by their color, sex, creed and disability. One minority that is never mentioned is men of reduced size. Well, little men have the right to be heard too.
I want to form a pressure group that will force state and federal governments to recognize the plight of the little men. This is my list of demands:
1. Trousers to be manufactured with an inseam of less than 30″.
2. Stores to stop stocking the small sizes on the highest shelves because it’s funny to watch little people jump up or ask a tall person for help.
3. The halting of all snide remarks from shoe store clerks who say, “You know what they say about men with small feet?”
4. The installation of adult high chairs in restaurants and the elimination of barstools by 2013.
5. Randy Newman to serve a life sentence for his song, SHORT PEOPLE. (You might not want any short people around you, Mr. Newman, but don’t worry, we ain’t too keen on you, either!).
Remember you heard it here first. The little people are rising up. Just mind your ankles.
UPDATE: It looks as if my prayers have been answered. Peter Manning has Peter Manning Five-Eight that makes clothes for men under 5′-8″. About time. :=)
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To enjoy life a bit. Last year was pretty successful: my books sold well, Julie landed a great job, and we bought a nice house, but we hit a bunch of stumbling blocks that pushed us to our limits at times. This year I hope to have a little fun along the way. J
I still want to finish a 100k bike ride in 3hrs or less. It’s the same resolution as last year…and is likely to be one that sticks around for a few years to come. J
Be healthy. I’m still managing my health since my bike accident two years ago. 2014 is the year I get myself right…and accept the things that will always be wrong.
To get back to my short story writing. Didn’t write one last year and that’s not right.
Have a vacation. It’s been a while…
Happy New Year and I wish you all the best.
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I hate moths. I hate their fluttery wings and that powdery crap that comes off on your skin when they touch you. It’s like they’re made from a pharaoh’s wrappings. There has to have been some ancient curse placed on them. Think about it. They only come out at night and they seek purification by entering a naked flame. Walk into the light my children. All is good.
Now this fear isn’t totally irrational. I have good reason to fear these scumbags. About twenty years ago, I awoke and reached over for a glass of water and drank from it. Something was in the glass. I spat my drink back into the glass and flicked on the light. My room was filled with hundreds of moths clinging to the walls and ceiling and a bunch had fallen into my glass of water. I leapt out of bed and rinsed my mouth out, but I couldn’t wash away the taste of moth out. Since then I’ve made it my duty to kill moths. I spray them with deodorant. It dries out their wings and they die an arid death.
When I was in Costa Rica in ’96, I did get the chance to test myself in my own personal Fear Factor. In a nature reserve called Rara Avis, this Belgian researcher has this moth and butterfly habitat containing all these rare Central American species. I went in and there were these huge moths. Each wing was the size of an open hand. One came fluttering towards me.
“There are only three of these in the region,” he told me.
“There are only going to be two in a minute if it gets any bloody closer,” I mumbled.
The Belgian didn’t hear but the moth did and veered off.
It’s not all bad news. Nicole Kidman is afraid of butterflies. I think we should hook up and protect each other, as I don’t have a fear of butterflies or Nicole Kidman.
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It’s December and the weather is really on the change, so it got me thinking about the weather. Okay, England gets a hard rap about its weather, but overall, it rains a bit, it’s a little bit sunny, it gets windy sometimes and it’ll snow occasionally. Nothing to get worried about.
It’s not like that in the US. The rain can wash you away. The snow can bury a town. The wind can relocate your home to a different state. The ground can shake and make everything fall down. And I’m not really used to that. It’s just so aggressive. American weather seems to have no manners.
Weather-wise, it’s been a crappy couple of months in the Bay Area. It’s rained a lot. It might not seem serious, but it sorta is. If my sump pump fails (which it did), I will end up with a few inches of standing water under the house in an hour. The hillside I live on is prone to slides. Waterlogged land means additional weight that it can’t support. But this is pretty minor compared to some of my experiences.
My first visit to the US was to Oklahoma seventeen years ago. Now, I know the Midwest has its reputation so I was expecting some quirkiness, just not some quirks. I noticed most people drove cars with lots of little dents in them. This wasn’t as a result of bad driving, but the golf ball-sized hailstones that had smashed the crap out of their cars. I bought a hardhat after that tidbit.
I also noticed that most bars, homes, and restaurants flicked between sports channels and the weather channel. Okay, maybe to these people the weather channel is riveting entertainment. They probably watch C-SPAN for a little spice.
But, being the naïve pup that I am (forever underestimating the world and all its dangers) I missed something fundamental to the Midwest—tornadoes. And wouldn’t you know, I’d come to Okalahoma in the middle of tornado season. Well done, Simon. You found trouble once again.
People told me that it was unlikely that I would see a tornado, but they didn’t know me about my luck. About a week into my trip, the news hit that a tornado was heading our way. Phone trees informed family and friends that people may be getting a one-way ticket to Oz if they didn’t batten down the hatches and switch over to the Weather Channel.
So there it was, I was facing a head on with a tornado and what was I supposed to do? The official advice: Get in the bathtub. No one had to tell me twice. I had everything I needed–bubble bath and a rubber ducky. Just before the twister reached the outskirts of town, it remembered a prior engagement in Missouri and took a right turn. We were safe!
I expected group hugs and counseling for the emotional rollercoaster, but there was nothing. As soon as the all-clear was announced, everyone came out of hiding and went back to their lives. It was surreal. I’d dodged a wind-driven bullet, but this was commonplace to everyone else. I wanted to celebrate life. Everyone else wanted to get some barbecue. What can I say? It’s a different world.
But here I am in California. We might not have tornadoes but we have earthquakes. I live two miles from an active fault line. A year ago, we were having an earthquake every few days for about a month. Some were mild, but some weren’t so mild with the epicenters less than less than five miles from my home. One earthquake threw me off the couch. During another, a wall slapped me in the back of the head. A couple I’ve slept through.
I must admit that I should have an earthquake kit in case of the `big one,’ but I do know what to do in an earthquake—get in the bathtub. I believe this also applies to wildfires and floods. Little did I know that in case of calamity, I should put my faith in the bathtub. Who knew the bathtub was such an omni-talisman?
To quote Cat Stevens: Baby, baby, it’s a wild world…
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This weekend is quite special for me, as it marks the 50thanniversary of Doctor Who.
I remember the monsters in CARNIVAL OF MONSTERS being so scary that I couldn’t eat my dinner. Because my Doctor Who privileges were subject to removal if I admitted I was scared, when my mum asked me why I hadn’t eaten my dinner, I told her it was because her food was horrible. Yes, I was affected by the show, but I was never harmed. The scares that Doctor Who conjured were in the roller coaster and carnival ride vein. The stereotype was that children (and some adults) watched Doctor Who from behind the sofa and I was no different. My sister and I usually took up residence behind the sofa, watched it from behind our fingers. The usual conversation between my mum, the sofa and us went like this:
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